At last, I have read the letter that I sent to my buddy in Australia in 1997.
I, myself forget what it was like to write a letter & using snail mail.
The ten years old letter reflex back what kind of a man I was and what kind of a man I am now.
To fall in love with the same girl with my best friend. Betrayal from my best friend.
Looking back in time and fast-forward it to now, I started to believe divine interventions has every reason to play a role in my life.
Of course, the girl now is my best friend’s wife now.
But looking both of them together, which I thank myself making the right choice; to let go.
Knowing that sometime at that very moment you think that life have been unfair to you but life is actually trying to help you.
You hurt someone else in the process, which now you tend to regret.
Blaming others for not understand you. Isolate yourself in the real world. Crying over nothing. At the end, you just brush yourself up and walk again.
I am happy man now. At least I know that I am happier than 10 years back.
These 10 years learning process has it own toll to pay but it is worth it.
Lesson #1: Help yourself first if you want to help others.
Lesson #2: Don’t think that every friend is your friend.
Lesson #3: Choose few good friends to keep.
Lesson #4: Never hurt others if you don’t want to hurt yourself.
And the rest of the world can kiss my a**! ~ Eminem
Thank you my friend for the letter.
